Now that their three daughters are grown, fashion designer Kenneth Cole and his wife, Maria Cuomo Cole, have turned their handsome Stanford White-designed home into a weekend retreat that’s a loving reflection of their 25 years together. InStyle took a private tour inside and sat down with Cole for an exclusive interview. “A house may reflect who you are on the outside but a home is who you are on the inside,” explains Cole, who says they didn’t necessarily set out to “decorate” the house. “All of these things tell a story about our past,” Cole adds. “But even more importantly, they inspire us to look forward to what lies ahead.” Click through the gallery to see the photos!